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118 | Part 7: Coach Dave Fipp Reflects on Coach Dick Tomey’s Enduring Legacy and Leadership

Toby Brooks delves into the enduring impact of Coach Dick Tomey, exploring his unique approach to leadership and mentorship through heartfelt reflections from former players and colleagues. Featuring an interview with Dave Fipp, the Special Teams Coordinator for the Detroit Lions, the episode highlights Tomey’s profound effect on lives both on and off the field, emphasizing a legacy of love, truth, and personal growth. Discover how Tomey’s philosophy continues to shape future generations, underscoring the power of authentic leadership and its lasting influence.

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117 | Part 6: Coach Dino Babers Talks Roaches, Man Hugs, and the Art of Building a Team with Love

Join host Toby Brooks as he reflects on the legacy of renowned football coach Dick Tomey with guest Dino Babers, Syracuse University’s former head coach. Brooks shares a personal story about a free T-shirt that inadvertently shaped his life, while Babers recalls valuable lessons learned from Tomey. Explore themes of unwavering commitment, leadership, and the power of storytelling in building team cohesion. Through heartfelt anecdotes, discover how Tomey’s influence extended beyond the football field, leaving an indelible mark on the lives he touched.

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116 | Part 5: Coach Rip Scherer: Coach Dick Tomey’s Legacy of Leadership and Resilience

Toby Brooks relives the trials and lessons from the late 90s Arizona football seasons under Coach Dick Tomey. The episode features insights from Coach Rip Shearer, who recounts Coach Tomey’s remarkable leadership, recruitment strategies, and the strong relationships he fostered across his career. From Tomey’s unique game-day tactics to his impact on Shearer’s coaching journey, discover how Tomey’s legacy transcended wins and losses, shaping countless careers in football and beyond. Next, expect stories from Coach Dino Babers and NFL coach Dave Phipp to further illuminate Tomey’s enduring influence.

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115 | Part 4: 4X Super Bowl Champ Jesse Sapolu Discusses Coach Dick Tomey’s Legacy: Transforming Lives Through Football and Culture

Toby Brooks delves into the profound influence of Coach Dick Tomey through engaging conversations with NFL star Jesse Sapolu. Sapolu discusses his transformational journey from a troubled teenager to a four-time Super Bowl champion, highlighting Tomey’s pivotal role in his life. Discover how Tomey’s keen understanding of Hawaiian culture and his unique approach to leadership, emphasizing family, respect, and perseverance, left an indelible mark on players and the sport. This episode offers deep insights into leadership and cultural connection, unveiling the legacy of a coach who inspired beyond the game.

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114 | Part 3: Coach Dick Vermeil Reflects on Coach Tomey’s Impact

Toby Brooks delves into the impactful legacy of Coach Dick Tomey, revealing intimate stories and lasting lessons from the field. Featuring insights from Hall of Fame coach Dick Vermeil, the episode explores Tomey’s profound influence at UCLA, Hawaii, Arizona, and beyond. Discover how Tomey’s leadership transcended football, emphasizing people and culture over accolades. With guest appearances by Vermeil and other notable figures, Brooks highlights the enduring values and relationships Tomey nurtured, underscoring the power of a coach’s legacy beyond the final whistle.

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109 | Champion to Starter with Carl Banks

About the Guest: Carl Banks is a legendary NFL linebacker, recognized for his influential career with the New York Giants where he secured two Super Bowl championships. The #3 overall pick in the 1984 NFL Draft out of Michigan State, Banks transitioned successfully...

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EP91: CHANGES (w3w) with Toby Brooks

Show Notes EP91: CHANGES (w3w) with Toby Brooks About the Host Toby Brooks is a seasoned professional with over 14 years of experience at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center. Starting his higher education journey at a community college, Toby eventually earned...

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EP72: GENERATIONS (w3w) with Brynnan Brooks

Show Notes Episode 72: GENERATIONS (w3w) with Brynnan Brooks Summary In this episode, Toby reflects on generational differences and stereotypes with his daughter, Brynnan Brooks. They discuss the characteristics and perceptions of their respective generations,...

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EP58: LETTERS with Emma Middleton Morris, 2-Time NCAA National Champion, HS & College All-American, and Former D1 Women’s Basketball Player

Emma Middleton Morris shares her journey as a college basketball player, from struggling with confidence and self-esteem to finding success and redemption. She discusses the highs and lows of her career, including her decision to transfer schools and her experience as a super senior. Emma also reflects on the importance of identity and the lessons she has learned from failure.

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EP45: GEAR (w3w) with Toby Brooks

Toby Brooks shares his journey of discovering his purpose and aligning it with his podcast, “Becoming Undone.” He reflects on the impact of Viktor Frankl’s book, “Man’s Search for Meaning,” and how it led him to redefine his mission, vision, and core values. Toby introduces his new program, GEAR UP, which aims to help aspiring high achievers define and achieve their goals through encouragement, accountability, and connection with like-minded individuals.

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EP44: ELEVATE (PT2) with Chris Carr, Former NBA Basketball Standout and Current Men’s Basketball Coach, Drury University

In this episode, Chris Carr, a former NBA player turned basketball coach. Carr shares his journey from growing up in a small town in Missouri to playing college basketball at Southern Illinois University Carbondale and eventually making it to the NBA. He discusses the highs and lows of his playing career, including his experience in the NBA Slam Dunk Finals and a career-ending knee injury. Carr also talks about his transition into coaching and the importance of impacting young people’s lives. He shares stories about his children’s athletic achievements and his aspirations to become a collegiate head coach.

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EP37: SPARTAN MINDSET with Author Reed Maltbie

Show Notes: Episode 37 THE SPARTAN MINDSET with TEDx Speaker, Author, and Coach Reed Maltbie Words matter. The choices we make the words we choose to speak and to write send powerful signals to the people we are trying to lead or inspire can make all the difference...

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EP22: RESTORED with Krickitt Pappas Carpenter

Episode 22: RESTORED with Krickitt Carpenter from The Vow For Arizona native Krickitt Carpenter, early athletic dreams of a college scholarship came true when she competed and earned her way to Cal State Fullerton where she competed on the gymnastics team. Sadly, a...

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