Show Notes

EP91: CHANGES (w3w) with Toby Brooks

About the Host

Toby Brooks is a seasoned professional with over 14 years of experience at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center. Starting his higher education journey at a community college, Toby eventually earned a master’s and a doctoral degree from the University of Arizona while working in athletics. Recently, he embarked on a new career path at Baylor University, where he continues to share his expertise and passion for education and athletics.

Episode Summary

In this introspective episode of the “Becoming Undone” podcast, host Toby Brooks reflects on the multitude of changes he has experienced in the past few months. Transitioning from a long-term position at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center to a fresh start at Baylor University, Toby candidly discusses the whirlwind of onboarding, training, and adjustments that come with a new job. His journey is marked by personal and professional milestones, including watching his children grow up, making career sacrifices for family, and enduring bittersweet farewells.

Toby explores the profound impact of change, both in its ability to cause upheaval and promote growth. As he navigates everything from the sale of his family home to the loss of beloved pets, Toby finds solace and inspiration in music, specifically Blind Melon’s track “Change.” This episode delves deep into Toby’s emotional landscape, offering listeners a raw and relatable perspective on coping with transitions and finding gratitude amidst the chaos.

Key Takeaways

• Embracing Change: Toby discusses the challenges and opportunities that come with significant life transitions, highlighting the importance of approaching change with a positive mindset.

• Personal Growth: Reflecting on his career and family life, Toby emphasizes how change can lead to personal and professional development.

• Family Sacrifices: The episode delves into the sacrifices made for family, particularly in careers that demand significant time away from home.

• Music as Therapy: Toby shares how music, particularly the song “Change” by Blind Melon, has been a source of comfort and reflection during turbulent times.

• Creating New Connections: Starting a new job at Baylor University, Toby consciously aims to foster meaningful relationships with his new colleagues.

Notable Quotes

• “Change is hard and change on the scale I’ve encountered these past three months has been nothing short of staggering.”
• “Change isn’t meant to make us grieve what we’ve lost, but it can help us to appreciate it.”
• “So keep on dreaming, because when you stop dreaming, it’s time to die.”
• “I’ve actually tried to approach this job change with a Ted Lasso approach.”
• “What I do know is that I’m regretting promising a new episode every Thursday night.”

Resources

• Music Mentioned: “Change” by Blind Melon, “Changes” by Tupac, “Changes” by XXXTentacion, among others.

• Podcasts Mentioned: “60 Songs That Explain the ’90s” by Rob Harvilla from The Ringer.

Stay tuned for more inspiring episodes from “Becoming Undone,” as Toby Brooks continues to bring insightful conversations and reflections on navigating life’s challenges and changes. Listen to the full episode for an in-depth look at Toby’s journey and the lessons he’s learned along the way.