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About the Guest

Mary Reiss Farias is a former Division 1 gymnast, successful business owner, transformational mindset mentor, and author. A decorated collegiate gymnast from the University of Arizona, she transitioned into a dedicated coach before becoming a self-development coach. Mary is passionate about helping others reframe their self-image and achieve their full potential. She co-authored the book “Discovering Something Greater” and wrote the Gym Rat book series to inspire young gymnasts. Her journey is a testament to persistence, reinvention, and the courage to embrace new challenges beyond gymnastics.

Episode Summary

In this episode of “Becoming UnDone,” host Toby Brooks engages in a compelling dialogue with Mary Reiss Farias, a remarkable former gymnast whose journey of self-discovery and growth is both inspiring and transformative. As a collegiate athlete, Mary thrived not just on the mats but also in the nurturing environment of the University of Arizona, where her passion for gymnastics was matched by her desire to excel as a person. Through a narrative that intertwines personal struggles with professional achievements, Mary shares the pivotal moments that shaped her life after gymnastics, as she transitioned to coaching and later embraced her role as a mindset mentor helping others discover their true potential.

Mary’s story is one of reinvention and resilience. She vividly recounts her journey from being a gymnast to operating a successful gymnastics gym, only to bravely shut it down in pursuit of something greater—a role in self-development coaching. This interview explores the emotional challenges of identity shifts, the power of setting audacious goals, and growing through change. In the face of adversity, Mary exemplifies what it means to embrace transition and thrive in a new arena. Her journey underscores a universal theme: that while life’s chapters may close, new opportunities await for those willing to step into the unknown with courage and faith.

Key Takeaways:

  • Self-image transformation: Mary’s journey highlights the significance of altering one’s self-image to embrace new roles and challenges effectively.
  • Resilience and growth: She illustrates that true growth comes from consistently pursuing new goals and evolving beyond past achievements.
  • Navigating transitions: Mary’s career shifts serve as a powerful lesson on the courage needed to step away from comfortable identities and into new arenas of growth.
  • Belief and audacity: Her story emphasizes the power of belief in oneself and the audacity to pursue dreams regardless of challenges.
  • Role of mentorship and support: The value of nurturing environments and supportive mentors is highlighted as crucial elements for achieving success.

Notable Quotes:

  1. “I realized I was one of the only ones who still loved the sport.” – Mary Reiss Farias
  2. “I had to make a major self-image shift in order to realize that it was, that wasn’t me… it’s okay to move on.” – Mary Reiss Farias
  3. “You have to act as if you’re that new version of you in order for that version to come alive.” – Mary Reiss Farias
  4. “Our duty is to be as much as we can be in this lifetime.” – Mary Reiss Farias
  5. “We’re built to keep growing throughout our entire lives… not just until we’re 22 and gymnastics is over.” – Mary Reiss Farias

Resources:

  • Follow Mary Reiss Farias on Facebook for more insights into personal development.
  • Discover more about her work with Proctor Gallagher and explore Bob Proctor’s book, “You Were Born Rich.”
  • Check out the “Gym Rat” book series authored by Mary for aspiring young gymnasts.

For a deep dive into Mary Reiss Farias’s transformative journey and more inspiring content, be sure to listen to the full episode. Stay tuned for future episodes of “Becoming UnDone” for more stories of courage and growth.

Timestamp Summary
0:00 Mary Farias on Embracing Change and Self-Image Transformation
4:51 A Gymnast’s Journey: Balancing Passion and Well-Being
10:26 Overcoming Adversity and Growth Through College Gymnastics
15:54 Emotional Reflections on the End of a Gymnastics Career
17:56 Transitioning From Gymnastics to a New Life Path
22:08 Embracing Change and Reinventing Identity for Personal Growth
28:22 Embracing Growth and Overcoming Challenges Through Faith and Action
35:19 Embracing Audacity and Self-Belief for Personal Growth
40:42 Balancing Work, Homeschooling, and Passion for Horses
42:58 Classic Rock Memories and Musical Introductions
44:28 Mary Farias’s Journey of Growth and Empowerment
47:48 Upcoming Series on Coach Dick Thomy’s Legacy and Lessons