May 22, 2025
Toby Brooks: The Science of the Comeback
What happens when you finally reach the goal you’ve worked toward your entire life—only to feel more lost than ever?
In this vulnerable and insightful solo episode of Becoming Undone, host Toby Brooks turns the spotlight inward, sharing his personal journey from academic triumph to existential turmoil. After achieving the coveted milestone of tenure, Toby found himself confronting a question that haunts high achievers everywhere: Now what?
Drawing from years of lived experience and study, he introduces “The Science of the Comeback,” a practical, powerful framework built on three pivotal steps: Reflect, Realign, and Rebuild. It’s not about bouncing back. It’s about becoming different, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be.
Whether you’re navigating burnout, redefining success, or staring down the silence that follows achievement, this episode offers clarity, courage, and a roadmap forward.
Listen in—and discover how becoming undone might just be the beginning.
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May 21, 2025
Magie Lacambra: Breaking Barriers and Building Belief
In this powerful installment of Becoming UnDone, host Toby Brooks sits down with Magie Lacambra—trailblazing athletic trainer and current Team Sport Manager at Gatorade—to reflect on her groundbreaking journey and the profound influence of legendary coach Dick Tomey. From being one of the first women in NCAA Division I football athletic training to leading athlete care at the University of Arizona, Magie shares what it meant to earn trust, navigate resistance, and ultimately thrive in a male-dominated world.
Through stories of quiet courage and steadfast resilience, Magie paints a vivid portrait of a leader shaped by Tomey’s ethos of empathy, inclusion, and unwavering belief in people. It’s a heartfelt tribute to the kind of strength that builds lasting legacies—not just in wins and losses, but in lives changed along the way.
Whether you lead a team, support others behind the scenes, or simply need a reminder of what compassionate leadership looks like in action, this conversation will stay with you long after it ends.
Listen now and rediscover the power of care, culture, and connection.
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May 2, 2025
In this episode of “Becoming UnDone,” host Toby Brooks, amid personal challenges, explores powerful stories from the life and legacy of Coach Dick Tomey. Featuring insights from Brent Brennan, Arizona Wildcats head coach, the episode delves into career-defining moments shaped by Tomey’s leadership style. Through compelling narratives, we gain a deeper understanding of Tomey’s impact on players and coaches, emphasizing relationships, integrity, and personal growth. As Brent shares memories, lessons, and aspirations, listeners uncover the enduring influence of Tomey’s mentorship on modern coaching and personal development.
Apr 3, 2025
, Rich vividly recounts memories of his father, revealing both personal anecdotes and professional insights that highlight Coach Tomey’s unique approach to leadership and personal growth. Known for his mantra, “football isn’t complicated; people are,” Coach Tomey’s consistent focus on relationship-building and personal development are themes repeatedly echoed by those who knew him best.
The discussion centers around the enduring influence of Dick Tomey’s values, particularly the importance of perseverance and the prioritization of people over results. Rich shares how his father’s life lessons have shaped his own career path with the Positive Coaching Alliance, where he strives to instill character and integrity in coaching. The episode also explores Coach Tomey’s career from his early years in Hawaii to his noteworthy achievements at Arizona and San Jose State University, highlighting his commitment to nurturing grit and character in athletes.
Mar 27, 2025
Toby Brooks delves into the enduring impact of Coach Dick Tomey, exploring his unique approach to leadership and mentorship through heartfelt reflections from former players and colleagues. Featuring an interview with Dave Fipp, the Special Teams Coordinator for the Detroit Lions, the episode highlights Tomey’s profound effect on lives both on and off the field, emphasizing a legacy of love, truth, and personal growth. Discover how Tomey’s philosophy continues to shape future generations, underscoring the power of authentic leadership and its lasting influence.
