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Show Notes: Episode 37

THE SPARTAN MINDSET with TEDx Speaker, Author, and Coach Reed Maltbie

Words matter. The choices we make the words we choose to speak and to write send powerful signals to the people we are trying to lead or inspire can make all the difference between a powerful connection or a missed opportunity. For San Diego, California transplant Reed Maltbie, decades of experience as an athlete, a coach, and as a speaker had taught him the importance of the perfect word applied at the appropriate time for the proper audience. But it wasn’t until a trusted advisor and those closest to him inspired him to stop talking about the idea and to put them to work. His newest book, just released in April 2023, The Spartan Mindset: Mastering the Language of Excellence shares powerful and personal insights that are supported by science. Hear Reed share his own story of battling through dark times and finding victory through persistence, will, and the love and support of his family in Episode 37: THE SPARTAN MINDSET.

 

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Episode Summary

Sports, Education, and Life: Reed Matbie’s Story of Embracing Adversity

SUMMARY

Reed Maltbie is a renowned speaker who has developed a platform around coaching and recently released his newest book, The Spartan Mindset. In the book, he shares powerful and personal insights that are supported by science. During this episode, he talks about his own story of battling through dark times and finding victory through persistence, will, and the love and support of his family. He explains the importance of the perfect word applied at the perfect time for the proper audience. He also shares how his trusted advisor and those closest to him inspired him to put his ideas into action. Finally, he encourages listeners to read The Spartan Mindset and learn how to master the language of excellence.

Reed was asked what he wanted to be when he was a kid, to which he replied he wanted to be a professional athlete, but his high school coach got him into the coaching side of sports. He was always playing sports, but he was also a nerd who strived to please others and set high standards for himself. He transitioned from an athlete to a coach, and now he enjoys working with both the body and the mind. The speaker is an avid athlete who has been passionate about sports ever since he was a kid. He balanced his academic studies with his love for sports, and had great mentors and family members who supported them.

The speaker’s background was primarily in soccer, having coached and played it all the way through high school, college, and beyond. As an athlete, he was coached by his dad, played in the neighborhood, and focused on soccer after being cut from the basketball team in high school. He also had mentors in high school and college who shaped his coaching experience. After retiring from soccer, the speaker began coaching and speaking about it, and was happy with what they were doing. The conversation between the two focuses on the impact of being a multi-sport athlete and the coaching of that era. The speaker mentions how he was encouraged by his coach to try out for as many sports as possible and that he was the kid that wouldn’t come home until the street light came on. The speaker then goes on to talk about how this experience shaped him as a coach and a speaker. He believes that the combination of playing multiple sports and coaching at a young age has had the biggest impact on him. He also reflects on how this early leading edge of early sports specialization is something he and his colleagues now work against.

 

TIMESTAMPS

0:00:00   Interview with Reed Maltbie: Mastering the Language of Excellence with The Spartan Mindset

0:02:21   Conversation between Reed and Interviewer on Reed’s Childhood Ambitions

0:04:57   Conversation on Balancing Academics and Athletics with Former Soccer Player and Coach

0:07:48   Conversation on the Benefits of Multi-Sport Participation and Early Coaching

   Heading: The Impact of Playing Multiple Sports on Athletic Intelligence and Performance

0:11:05   Conversation on Leveraging Academic and Athletic Experiences to Coach Effectively

   Reflection on Career Change: Moving Across the Country to Pursue a Passion for Soccer

0:15:06   “Scaling Impact: Moving Across the Country to Create Positive Change”

0:17:02   Confronting Fear and Embracing the Suck: A Conversation on Overcoming Adversity

0:18:50   Conversation on Overcoming Challenges and Unlearning Unhelpful Behaviors

 0:20:36   Heading: The Origin of the Habits of Excellence Platform

0:25:07   Conversation on Specializing in Sports vs. Multilateral Movement Skills

   The Benefits of Not Specializing Too Early: A Discussion on the Advantages of Participating in Multiple Activities

 0:29:31   Discussion on the Benefits of Variety in Youth Sports

0:30:58   Conversation on the Benefits of Sticking Out Difficult Situations and the Value of Persistence

 0:34:36   Conversation on Adapting to Different Coaching Styles and Finding Resilience in Difficult Times

0:40:43   Mentoring for Professional Growth: A Conversation with Reed Maltbie

0:42:38   Conversation on Mentorship and the Spartan Mindset

   “The Power of Writing: How One Man Wrote a Book in a Month”

   The Origin Story of the Name “Spartan Mindset

   Heading: ICSA Executive Director Discusses Governance, Sponsorship, and the Spartan Mindset

0:52:29   “Lessons Learned from Failure: Reflections from a Culture Junkie”

0:54:18   Heading: “The Power of Failure: How Many People Love Us?”

0:57:09   Conversation with Coach Reed: Reaching Out to Those Becoming Undone

0:58:44   Conversation with Reed Maltbie: Don’t Suffer in Silence and Check Out His Transformative Book

 

HIGHLIGHTS

How many people love us? How many people care about us? How many people are actually rooting to see us succeed? That’s what failure taught me because I failed miserably and I walked away completely away and I was willing to give that dream up until you know my wife and other people and especially Jane Nelson were like, you know, Jane especially, get out of the shadows, Reed.

You know what failure taught me? The biggest message failure taught me was, and this is not just me, this is all of us, this is something we all need to remember.

And so here I am on this call with Sport New Zealand, and I’m freaking out. And of course, at the end of the call, I was like, I would love to come visit someday and meet the All Blacks and the Silver Ferns.

I’m now executive director of the Intercollegiate Sailing Association. So we are the governing body for all college sailing in North America. We’ve got a couple of Canadian teams, which is awesome.

Philip II of Macedonia is at this point this is after 300 so after the hot gates the Spartan nation is not what they used to be they’re on the decline they were decimated by that war obviously and the civilization itself is sort of decaying a little bit they’re not the Spartans of old, they’re sort of downhill.