Aug 10, 2025
Toby Brooks reflects on the life and legacy of coaching legend Dick Tomey in the final installment of his docu-series. Uncover powerful lessons from leadership to loyalty, drawn from conversations with guests like Lance Tominaga, Mike Flores, and Brent Brennan. Explore Tomey’s impact on countless lives, emphasizing belonging, culture, and long-lasting influence over accolades. This episode delves into Tomey’s transformative approach to mentoring, his unwavering loyalty, and how he built leaders both on and off the field—offering insights applicable beyond sports to all walks of life.
Jul 12, 2025
Nancy Kincaid delves into the life, lessons, and legacy of her late husband, Coach Dick Tomey. Through heartfelt anecdotes, Nancy shares how Dick embodied humility, resilience, and compassion both on and off the field. Their story highlights Dick’s dedication to transforming challenges into opportunities and his profound impact on players and colleagues. This episode underscores themes of leadership, forgiveness, and reinvention, intertwined with insights from Nancy’s experiences as an acclaimed author and Dick’s partner. Join Toby Brooks in exploring the enduring influence of a coach who turned obstacles into triumphs.
Jun 28, 2025
Toby Brooks explores the profound leadership and legacy of Coach Dick Tomey through a captivating discussion with Ken Niumatalolo, head coach of San Jose State Spartans. Reflecting on Tomey’s impact from Hawaii to Arizona, they delve into the enduring qualities of integrity, connection, and resilience that Tomey instilled in his players. As Niumatalolo shares insights into how Tomey’s influence continues to shape his coaching philosophy, listeners gain a deeper understanding of authentic leadership that transcends wins and losses, highlighting the importance of culture and personal growth.
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Jun 19, 2025
Kelvin Eafon: Leading with Heart, Living with Purpose
What happens when belief becomes a catalyst—and leadership becomes a calling?
In this powerful episode of Becoming UnDone, host Toby Brooks is joined by Kelvin Eafon, former Arizona Wildcat co-captain, whose journey from a basketball recruit under Lute Olson to a football leader under Coach Dick Tomey is nothing short of remarkable. Kelvin opens up about what it meant to switch sports, find purpose, and rise as a quiet force of leadership during one of the most storied seasons in school history.
But this conversation isn’t about stats or highlights—it’s about heart.
Kelvin shares how Coach Tomey’s simple but transformative acts of belief and love shaped his identity as both an athlete and a man. Now a coach and mentor himself, Kelvin is passing down those same values to the next generation.
If you’ve ever wondered what real leadership looks like—or how one person’s belief can change everything—this episode is your playbook.
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May 31, 2025
Barrett Baker: From Walk-On to Leader for Life
In this inspiring episode of Becoming Undone, host Toby Brooks sits down with Barrett Baker—former walk-on turned team captain of the legendary 1998 Arizona Wildcats. Barrett shares the unlikely and unforgettable journey that took him from the bottom of the depth chart to the heart of one of the most successful teams in school history.
But this story goes far beyond football.
Now a decorated Assistant Fire Chief for the Tucson Fire Department, Barrett reflects on the leadership, integrity, and unwavering belief instilled by Coach Dick Tomey—lessons that still shape his life on the front lines and at home. With stories of handwritten notes, hard-earned respect, and quiet conviction, Barrett shows how a culture of belief can transform lives—and how one leader’s values can echo across generations.
This isn’t just a sports story. It’s a story about grit, mentorship, and becoming the kind of person others can count on—on any field, in any season.
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